«Wait, Is This a Date?» Podcast Episode 105: greatest Intercourse Actually ever | Autostraddle

The event topic this week is ideal gender Ever so we’re dealing with… the number one sex we have now had! We are accompanied by Autostraddle journalist, poet, and journalist Dani Janae once we enter some passionate stories followed by an in-depth discussion with what makes great gender quality. And now we fork out a lot of the time back at my intimate hang ups that I could or might not have actually accomplished many work on come july 1st!

Arrive for any lesbian movie-themed online game, stay your coming.


SHOW RECORDS

+
The 200 Best Lesbian+ Films list
that Christina pulled the video game from.

+ when you yourself haven’t read Dani’s
Anatomy of a Mango
collection you actually must.

+
This is basically the article
We composed concerning the m4m personals We talk about on episode. It’s just been 2 yrs but plenty changed!

+ summer time has passed so we nevertheless stan Olivia Rodrigo. View the
«intense» songs movie
.



Dani:

The pet therefore the puppy had been inside the area so there was actually cat and dog locks every where. And therefore, I happened to be definitely having an allergic reaction although we happened to be sex. Nevertheless climax was like chef’s kiss. It actually was the perfect, great knowledge physically.


Christina:

I ask yourself whether or not it’s some thing towards hives that basically added just a little

je ne sais quoi

to that orgasmic knowledge.


Theme tune performs


Drew:

Welcome to

Hold off, Is It a night out together?


Christina:


Wait, Is It a romantic date?

is an Autostraddle podcast everything about, you guessed it, dating.


Drew:

Yay! I Really Like matchmaking. I Am Drew Gregory. I am a writer for Autostraddle, and a filmmaker, and simply common trans gay individual across the internet and… I became gonna state world, but it is truly more like L. A. and New York.


Christina:

Everyone loves this globe trotting homosexual individuality you are dealing with listed here in 2021.


Drew:

I want that. Yeah, it really is for the future.


Christina:

Yeah. I’m the additional host, Christina Tucker, additionally an author for Autostraddle, deranged noisy gay on the net. Merely type of out here, writing, getting homosexual, carrying out that which we can every moment to try and work through this life that we’re living.


Drew:

You are actually doing it. You are truly operating through that life.


Christina:

Honestly, it’s all i could perform. That is all We have, oahu is the sole option.


Drew:

I really have respect for the effort.


Christina:

The attempt to live?


Drew:

Yeah.


Christina:

Yeah. In fact, truly fearless of us to even attempt it. You aren’t incorrect, you’re not incorrect. Do you really be thinking about playing only a little online game now, Drew?


Drew:

Oh my personal God, I’m therefore thrilled. Cannot wait to see everything have actually in my situation.


Christina:

I’m therefore pleased you mentioned that since you absolutely have to say yes, for the reason that it’s section of this offer that people’ve created here. So you might be familiar with that on autostraddle.com, website, we have a listing of 200 lesbian movies.


Drew:

I know of it. I may have written it.


Christina:

You may possibly have. The thing I have done is draw an array of 10 of those movies. I kept them to the most known 50. I will provide land key words as decided by people on IMDb and you’re planning must guess what motion picture really.


Drew:

Okay. I recently wish the audience, anywhere you’re, to understand that I am not probably pull-up the list. I think that is right, am We let’s assume that’s correct in the way I must certanly be respecting the game?


Christina:

In my opinion that is extremely sincere and I genuinely believe that’s reasonable. I also sort of trust this is going end up being something that pops into their heads rather possible for you, i did not go as well remaining.


Drew:

You will find a terrible memory, but yes, i will make an effort to set folks up for reasonable expectations.


Christina:

Reasonable adequate.


Drew:

Therefore if i really do really well, it really is love kind of blow all of them away, of course, if I really don’t do well, they will be love, «Well, she talked about…» Anyways, carry on. Let’s begin this.


Christina:

Let’s start. I am going to begin with pretty basic people and I will have more certain as we go, because several are literally what the movie is in two words. Therefore we’re going to just be sure to begin with a wider knowledge right here.


Drew:

Everyone loves it.


Christina:

All of our very first film: medicines will be the first plot word. New york, nyc is the next. Hate crime could be the next.


Drew:

Okay.

It Is All Over Me.


Christina:

Yes, its! See, I realized you will be able to do this.


Drew:

Great.


Christina:

We positively realized you would be able to do this.


Drew:

In addition, I just need to permit men and women realize that that will be probably one of the most underrated lesbian movies, and also you really should notice it. And Leisha Hailey for the reason that flick is my personal phone history for two years. Therefore merely an enjoyable little fact here for all people.


Christina:

We like that. Fine, movie number two. «Unknown dad,» body organ donor, cemetery, loss of child. Oh, she’s thinking.


Drew:

I’m like i ought to undoubtedly have this considering — wait, unknown dad, death of child, body organ donor. Oh,

Exactly About My Mama.


Christina:

Truth be told there it’s, see.


Drew:

A differnt one of my personal preferences.


Christina:

It’s very exciting observe the things that folks decide tend to be a land key phrase that they have to take from the flicks. I’m in addition maybe not reading the types being simply lesbian for the reason that it appears similar to a gimme.


Drew:

Which is how I come up with most of the list since if you appear up lesbian movies, what you found ended up being the old Autostraddle number or some databases that aren’t very extensive, thus I would really scroll through listings of the keywords of lesbian, lesbian kissing, these specific things like women kissing, this stuff, to find movies in which they truly are perhaps not thought of as a lesbian flick since they are a little bit more interesting, or maybe just slightly much less immediate, that is certainly the way I discovered many flicks which happen to be today regarding the number, thus back to where it started.


Christina:

Tune in, IMDb key words coming in helpful for everybody on a regular basis. This, folks went crazy about this one. Therefore just gonna read some haphazard words to you personally. Hey, whistling, lady, black colored sports bra, lake, stomping out a cigarette, on the job accident.


Drew:

On the job accident? Oh, I Was Thinking I had it then, really—


Christina:

Icy, in parentheses, the heat.


Drew:

Due to the fact initially I happened to be probably state

Foxfire,

then again the on the job collision switched myself up. On-the-job crash.


Christina:

Do you want more?


Drew:

Yeah.


Christina:

Vehicle crashes through a fence.


Drew:

Could it possibly be

Miseducation of Cameron Post?


Christina:

It’s not.


Drew:

Because face to face accident could well be a truly dreadful way of describing this 1 in the homosexual because you’re trying to convert to maybe not gayness, attempts to mutilate themselves or does mutilate on their own. That’d end up being quite intensive, but I didn’t understand making use of the IMDb thinkers. Okay, wait, this can be deceiving me personally right up.


Christina:

Would you like some more from me?


Drew:

Vehicle through a fence. I’m sure it’s something that I am simply not… Yeah, keep going.


Christina:

Mention of the a school loan. They’re very peanuts.


Drew:

Hold off, have you seen this movie?


Christina:

I have seen this motion picture.


Drew:

Is-it crazy that I’m not getting it?


Christina:

It is only a little crazy. I’m able to supply annually, if you need annually.


Drew:

Should you give me annually, I’ll undoubtedly get it.


Christina:

Okay. 2016 will be your year.


Drew:

2016. Okay, tell me what it is.


Christina:

It is the film,

Certain Girls,

2016.


Drew:

Oh! Yeah.


Christina:

I really believed vehicle crashes through a fence would allow you to get, but I also just love these individuals simply taking out nouns and merely getting like, «male.» Is how you feel?


Drew:

Yeah.


Christina:

Okay.


Drew:

That is the motion picture. I have to notice that once again.


Christina:

It’s. Its a good flick.


Drew:

Yeah, it really is a really great movie.


Christina:

All right, all of our next movie. Kissing whilst having intercourse.


Drew:

The greatest kind of both, maybe, in ways.


Christina:

Seduction, dude farm.


Drew:

Is-it

Desert Hearts?


Christina:

Yeah. And so I was like, «Okay, you’ve got receive that after that one.» Another one I found myself browsing give you ended up being — «nipples» ended up being the truly prominently featured. And I also was like, «Sure, definitely element of that film.»


Drew:

Jesus,

Desert Hearts.

You probably know how there’s all those irritating folks out there trying to be Shane. Sorry, after all, if you should be trying to be Shane, we take you. But myself, my irritating thing is i am attempting to be Cay. Cay for the reason that film is much like definitely just who In my opinion of as the particular lesbian that I want to end up being.


Christina:

Yeah, that is correct, can confirm. Fine, are we ready in regards to our subsequent any?


Drew:

Yeah.


Christina:

12 Months—


Drew:

Hold off, no, We have one more thing to state about

Desert Hearts.


Christina:

Certain.


Drew:

After the last time I re-watched it around summer time, it type of sent me into a small spiral, and I texted this more mature semi-closeted one who I experienced type of started tentatively wanting to date or day whatever, and that has vanished for four weeks, and I also had abadndoned because I don’t ask visitors to date me personally. But i simply was actually like, «Okay.» We watched

Desert Hearts

and that I was like, «i suppose perhaps sometimes folks have their particular internalized whatever.» And that I texted the lady and I also mentioned, «If we never ever fulfill, In my opinion you are going to be sorry.» And now we performed fulfill, making sure that’s exactly what

Desert Hearts

can do to you.


Christina:

Wow, which is a truly effective recommendation.


Drew:

We most likely shouldn’t have met. I probably requires only allow it to be. But anyways, shifting, subsequent movie.


Christina:

All of our subsequent movie, metaphysics, scene during opening credit — exactly what it means, it really is your responsibility — highschool football, Chicago, Illinois.


Drew:

Oh,

Princess Cyd.


Christina:

There you decide to go.


Drew:

Which is an excellent movie. I prefer that We hold being amazed by this list that I’d a really powerful hand in position. It isn’t my position, but i did so have a big say into the positioning and I also think it’s great.


Christina:

Yeah. I recently desire to be obvious to you personally and our listeners — once again, We picked through the top 50, therefore they are excellent types. Associated with great ones, they are good types. I’m Sure Drewshould continuously state this can be a good movie after each and every one, but—


Drew:

They may be really good flicks, all of you should see them.


Christina:

Fine. Quick dress with pumps.


Drew:

Love it.


Christina:

Cock blocked, mini dress with footwear.


Drew:

After all, will it be

Blockers?


Christina:

It isn’t. That could be also effortless, i believe, for

Blockers.


Drew:

I Really Don’t bear in mind any miniskirts, but—


Christina:

Feminine back nudity.


Drew:

Okay. Wait the second. Okay, exactly what a second. Okay, dick blocked, mini top, feminine rear nudity.


Christina:

Mm-hmm (affirmative). Break dance.


Drew:

Is it

Certain?


Christina:

It isn’t.


Drew:

No, i might love some slack dancing world.


Christina:

I really like a rest dancing world in

Bound.


Drew:

A rest moving scene.


Christina:

I’m going to provide you with: English woman abroad.


Drew:

English girl overseas? This is another one in which I believe I certainly need to have it.


Christina:

I will must present a pretty apparent any sooner or later, to make certain that’s going to help.


Drew:

Okay, provide me a clear one.


Christina:

Undercover agent.


Drew:

Would it be

D.E.B.S?


Christina:

It is far from

D.E.B.S.

It is next to

D.E.B.S.,

sorts of movie a good idea. Listed here is a differnt one, intrigue.


Drew:

Okay, hold off, there is not that lots of genre flicks.


Christina:

You can findn’t, that is true.


Drew:

Undercover agent. Really, possibly they may be by using the phrase, can it be

The Handmaiden?


Christina:

It is really not.


Drew:

Okay, i did not think-so. Undercover agent.


Christina:

Do you need your 12 months?


Drew:

I thought that… Sure.


Christina:

The 12 months is 2017.


Drew:

Undercover broker.


Christina:

I am so sorry. You are going to feel so stupid as I say the name of this one.


Drew:

Oh no.


Christina:

I am really sorry about this, but that is particular exactly the method the cookie crumbles.


Drew:

Oh, its

Carol.


Christina:

No, it is not

Carol.


Drew:

No, it claims 2015.


Christina:

Yes, I know that. It’s not

Carol.


Drew:

But there is an undercover — the guy, that’s where I happened to be thinking. Okay, the facts? How does it make me feel foolish?


Christina:

It Really Is

Atomic Blonde,

you dummy.


Drew:

Oh, which is inside the top 50?


Christina:

Its. I know.


Drew:

Oh, okay.


Christina:

All right. Offering four more, you ready?


Drew:

I don’t believe foolish for the reason that it one I… What i’m saying is, In my opinion

Atomic Blonde

is fun, but I really don’t imagine it really is fantastic. That would not during my individual leading 50. I do wish the entire world to know that I know that

Carol

came out in 2015. My personal brain hurt. I simply wish the planet to understand that. Anyways, carry on.


Christina:

The entire world today understands that, the record has become mirrored. All righty: bistro, sense of smell, novelist, regard to a hamburger, mention of the Larry King, centered on memoir, alcohol, theft, lady wears glasses, living by yourself, damaging proof.


Drew:

The reference to Larry King is really—


Christina:

It’s a really odd one.


Drew:

Regard to Larry King, damaging research.


Christina:

Cat.


Drew:

Oh, is-it

Can You Ever Before Forgive Me?


Christina:

It’s.


Drew:

I needed to receive myself personally. I happened to be actually in a slump truth be told there.


Christina:

You nailed it. I do believe you have there, I believe you definitely had gotten here. Fine, three even more, our leading three. In my opinion these types would be possible for you because i am aware you.


Drew:

Great, ok, really…


Christina:

I am aware, but I’m claiming, are you ready?


Drew:

Okay, yeah.


Christina:

Mental health, medicine overdose.


Drew:

Will it be

Foxfire?


Christina:

No. Photographer.


Drew:

Oh,

Greater.


Christina:

There we get. Tattoo, woman gang.


Drew:

Is this

Foxfire?


Christina:

Yeah.


Drew:

Oh, I’m sure

Foxfire.


Christina:

I happened to be like, «Oh, she is going to simply hold guessing

Foxfire

until i simply offer her

Foxfire.»


Drew:

The secret is that i enjoy

Foxfire

and I also hold wanting to think of

Foxfire.


Christina:

What i’m saying is, whomst among us?


Drew:

Angelina Jolie, gosh.


Christina:

Okay. This, one among these is actually—


Drew:

Here is the last one?


Christina:

This is the final one. This is certainly the last one. Church, denial, family members connections.


Drew:

Could it be

Miseducation of Cameron Post?


Christina:

It is not.


Drew:

Is-it

But I’m a Cheerleader?


Christina:

Truly, yes.


Drew:

Yes. Comedic

Miseducation of Cameron Post.


Christina:

Jokes on jokes. To ensure was the video game I’m calling, How Well really does Drew Know Lesbian videos???


Drew:

Everyone loves just how good our company is coming up with names for the video games.


Christina:

Yeah, is in reality mortifying that I also penned that into the title of a Google Doc, the thing that was I thinking? It doesn’t actually look fantastic in my own Google Docs.


Drew:

I got an enjoyable experience and that I’m actually happy that i got eventually to tell every audience about the films they should enjoy. So we’ll put the number when you look at the show records.


Christina:

Absolutely.


Drew:

I would personally claim that the list happens to be at a location in which i do believe you’d get something off watching all 200 movies. The initial type of the list, there is some material on the website that I became not as happy with. There is still items that I think that I really don’t personally but i do believe that all together, there is a certain quality-control next most recent up-date that i’m very pleased with and that I believe they are all really worth watching.


Christina: